How to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams

Download or read book How to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams written by Zak Roedde and published by . This book was released on 2016-10-12 with total page 142 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Whether single or partnered, nearly everyone desires to create a dream relationship. Yet despite what people want, almost every relationship falls far short because we are stuck in our ego survival strategies. We use approval seeking behaviours to get love and validation from our partners instead of learning to love ourselves and self-validate. We use avoidance behaviours with our partners instead of expressing who we really are by saying and doing exactly what we want. Then we use blame and judgment when our partners don't give us the dream that we wanted instead of loving them unconditionally. Compatibility does make a difference in the quality of a relationship, but you can't create a dream relationship by finding the most compatible partner. Instead, you create it by learning to generate happiness and fulfillment from within yourself. You create it by learning to freely express your personality, assert your desires, enforce your boundaries, and state your opinions, feelings, and vulnerabilities. You create it by letting go of anger and judgment, and creating a safe environment for your partner to be who they are with you. These are skillsets that anyone can learn, and this book will give you the knowledge and tools to do it.